As I have mentioned before it can be overwhelming once you make the decision that you want to be more active and healthy. Not only is it difficult to pin down the “hows” but it can be daunting just defining the “what“! In order to set your fitness goals, and have them be realistic and actionable, you need to sit down for 10-15 minutes and put some pen to paper (I am big on writing things down and visualizations). We are going to figure out what we are trying to accomplish with this newfound direction in life…
First it is vital to remember that goal setting is an iterative process. You will set your fitness goals many times over the course of your life. They can, and should, change for a myriad of reasons such as:
- A major life change (new job, moving to a new home, having a child, etc…)
- You have reached your existing goals and now it is time for another set
- An injury is requiring you to make some changes while you heal up
- Your existing goals end up being unrealistic and you need to re-evaluate before you get discouraged
Whatever the reason ends up being, just be prepared to whip out the notebook every couple of months and set your fitness goals anew.
“You should set, and re-examine, your fitness goals regularly. Shoot for every three months!“
The key to setting achievable goals is being realistic and honest with yourself. If you are 100 lbs overweight and have never run a mile in your life, then your first goal list probably shouldn’t include a line item stating you are going to run a triathlon; or if you are super skinny and can’t do 5 pushups without your arms giving out perhaps writing down that you are going to do 60 pushups in 1 minute is overreaching a bit. We want to make small systematic changes in ourselves, striving to be just a bit healthier and more fit each day. Those are the sort of changes that are sustainable over the long haul and you want to set your fitness goals in a similar fashion.
What is reasonably achievable in the next three months? Make a list of five things max that you want to achieve. They can be anything, as long as they are realistic:
I will lose 10 lbs
I will be able to run an additional 2 miles without stopping
I will be able to touch my toes
I will eat two pieces of fruit a day
I will limit myself to one hour a night of TV
Whatever else you think is important for your goals!
I want you to notice two very important things on that list.
1) They all start with the positive statement “I will“, by saying “I will try” or something along those lines you have already given yourself a mental backdoor to failure. Remember young Jedi, “There is do or do not… there is no try” #yodaprotip. This is why it is imperative when you set you fitness goals that they are readily achievable. Once you start seeing success it will become easier to motivate yourself for your next set of goals. Success begets success.
2) They are all in the form of a positive statement. Instead of saying “I will eat out less” say “I will cook 4 healthy meals a week”. The latter is a reminder of what to do, and it is quantified and measurable. Being able to measure how well you are following your plan is huge! If something is nebulous, using the term “less” or “more” it is easy for your brain to rationalize failure to follow through (and it will; that damned cerebral cortex is a sneaky, lazy bastard!) but if you have a set goal that you will do something X amount of times a day or week it is undeniable that you have cheated yourself when you don’t hit your target. Remember what I said above…
The key to setting achievable goals is being realistic and honest with yourself.
If you are honest and realistic when you set your fitness goals you are laying the necessary foundation for success. I promise.
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